WAPDAY25 YOUTH MASSAGE

*NOW YOU'RE YOUNG* 

 *SUCCESS TIPS* 

TIP NO 2

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Once you have started, the next is *CONSISTENCY* .

There are certain factors that accelerate consistency on goals and of course promote implementation. One of such is that you've got to swallow a high dose of shamelessness. Please sir you mean I should be shameless? Yes; you heard me right.

Until You Become Shameless About Your Goals,  You Are Not Ready For Greatness. When You Become Shameless, You Become Fearless And Audacious - Olu Gbemi

Life has succeeded in proving to me that becoming shameless works and that the reason most people (including me) have not recorded as much success as they should, in their endeavour, is because they allow shame and the thought of what people will say hold them back from reaching out to greatness.  

The feeling and thought of shame is a negative label and belief system that we have accepted. Because we are imperfect, we make mistakes, mess up, disappoint ourselves and others. In fact resigning to shame will do you more harm than good.

 *Shame keeps you blowing out your candle that is meant to shine. Shame is a jailer of satisfaction and an enemy of growth.* 

The moment you become shameless you open yourself up for learning and positive experiences. You develop a thick skin and you possess the strength and grabness to do what you must do despite the prevailing circumstances.

Being shameless about your goals enables you to see the big picture and gives you direction towards your dreams. Thanks to Henry David Thoreau who said that " If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams and endeavours to live the life he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."

These 3 things happen when you become shameless:

1) *You Become Fearless* : You will be free from the fear of failure; fear of rejection; fear of disapproval.

2) *You Become Audacious* : You will have the willingness to take bold risk; develop the capacity to be recklessly daring. You will be free from mental slavery.

3) *You Learn and Practice Faster* : Knowledge determines the quality of your thinking which invariably increases your productivity. Knowledge gives you the ability to recognise patterns in new situations and increases your speed to make informed decisions and take appropriate actions in any given circumstances.

Yes! Becoming shameless doesn't translate to immediate wealth or your ability to even predict the outcome, but you be sure that you have left a remarkable impression.

Those who become shameless go all the way. They turn their EXCUSES to their WHYs and they eventually succeed.

When you understand that people's perception of you is a reflection of them, you can easily become shameless. Don't allow another man's clock to regulate your life.

Note this;  "Shamelessness doesn't mean you don't have shame but you consider shame less."

Leave shame behind you and go all out!

 *Remember that:* 

** *Opposition will come* . Opposition is the door you have to pass through to your next level. Therefore, discover the opportunities they carry.

** *You will be looked down upon* ; remember, it's their opinion not your reality. Your assessment of yourself forms your true picture.

** *Your friends will not understand you* and of course you don't have to seek the approval of everyone.

** *Your name will be on their lips;* don't bother so much about such people. Consider it a means of advertising you as long as you are on the right direction without cutting conners.

** *They will beg you to put a stop to the craze.* They will even try to stop your shine. Ask brother Joseph and David about their secrets to the top.

Remember, you have to be shameless even to serve the true God which is the ultimate no matter who sees otherwise. Sure expect that your choices may feel odd to your peers.

Your power is in your uniqueness. Become Shameless about putting the required efforts in developing and deploying your potential.

Once you have your vision in place and have started working on it, make sure you don't stop. It's a fight you must face if profits are in view.

To be continued…..

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God bless you.

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MARRIAGE 

*Secret 1*

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his or her strength.

*Secret 2*

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

*Secret 3*

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges.  Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow *For better for worse*. In sickness and in health be there.

*Secret 4*

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

*Secret 5*

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance 

Prayerlessness

Unforgiveness 

Third party influence 

Stinginess

Stubbornness 

Lack of love 

Rudeness

Laziness 

Disrespect 

Cheating 

_Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone._

*Secret 6*

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages. 

*Secret 7*

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould the person that you desire. This can only be achieved through prayer, love and Patience

*Secret 8*

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future.  Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might seek for divorce but marriage is for togetherness until death does you apart.

*Secret 9*

Marriage is not a contract. It is  permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

*Secret 10*

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

So today let us pray for our marriages and ask God to help us where we are lacking in our marriage. May God bless our marriages!

THIS WAS COPIED FROM A POST AND IT IS WORTHY OF CIRCULATION.